BRANDY: WHEN IT COMES TO MY DAUGHTER, I’M A FRIEND FIRST

Singer Brandy considers herself to be a be "a good example of a young, single mom." The star says that when it comes to her soon-to-be eight-year-old daughter Sy'rai, she is a friend above all else.

"A lot of mothers feel like they're the mom first, with that authority. But for me, I'm a friend first. I believe that just being there for my daughter as a friend more than 'I'm in charge...' causes her to be more open with me as a person. That's just what our relationship is. Of course, there are times when I have to discipline her -- I'm mom. But there's still that nurturing and love there that we have. I know I'll probably get flack for being a friend first, but it really works. She's really honest with me. I'm just teaching her how to trust herself. I tell her all the time that my life is not your life -- you have your own life."

She continues, "At the end of the day we're going to be friends. When she grows up, it'll be about that friendship that we'll have. She'll come to me for any problems that she has. If I have an authoritative wall up, she's going to rebel and not come to me and I don't want that."

Read More of Brandy's interview at Parade.com

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